Tell Ya Fling You'll Be Back Around June !!!! : Tips For The Singles On How To Survive Cuffin Season 2014

  

  So ya know it is the beginning of September and everybody back in the school and work flows. Summer flings are burning out and the temps are cooling off. As the year winds down, new relationships sprout up from the months November to April, the official months of cuffin season, and everybody is all happy and supposedly madly in love. That's cool and all , but what about the group of people in this generation who don't want to get into a relationship just because it seems like everyone else is in them? 

   Well, I'm gonna tell y'all the ways to get through cuffing season 2014 without caving in to the pressure of being booed up. It'll be some days when you get lonely on those chilly days but when you are patient the right man or woman will be sent to you no matter the season. 

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Tips For Singles During Cuffing Season 2014

• Focus on a Goal !- Whether it be getting a promotion at work, receiving academic honors or just reaching personal goal. Focusing on self improvement is always a great thing to do. Not only will it take your mind off being single, it will also attract more attention from the opposite sex & you may even meet someone with similar goals to yours. 
• Join A Social Group/Club !- Get involved. It's so many social groups out there where you can meet peers who share your same interests . There are all types of groups from ones that focus on fitness, nutrition to travel/leisure and even shopping clubs. A couple years ago I joined a social club that focused on going out to different clubs and bars because that was what I was into at the time and I made a lot of great friends and even learned how to bartend. 
• Get a Hobby ! - Take up something new & exciting. You can do anything you want for fun and sometimes this could even lead you to potentially start a new career or side hustle. When I used to have down time from my job I would go to the studio and just make songs about what I went through & that became very therapeutic for me. So, it is definitely not a waste of time to take a singing lesson, cut hair, learn a new instrument or anything that suits your fancy.
• Delete ALL EXS NUMBER !- During the winter/fall/spring months you may be tempted to call your ex flame to warm you up (pun intended :P). Remember, Your ex was axed for a reason and when rekindled expect for the same problems to eventually arise again no matter how much they claimed they've changed. OHKAYY *snaps fingers*. 
• Eat Right & Exercise !- Well you ain't go no boo so might as well hit the gym. Ladies work on ya guts & butts, Men work on those arms and abs. Eating right and exercising increases your health, brain function and even helps you make better decisions. You are not only working on your body but also your mind and you will have increased self-esteem. You may be tempted to eat chips while watching Netflix on those frigid winter days but instead pop in a workout DVD, go for a jog or sign up for your local gym. It's Great way to meet other healthy singles and get fit for the summer ! 
• Break A Bad Habit ! - Stop the cigarettes, binge drankin, popping pills , eating too much, drinkin lean, smokin weed , causal sex etc. Everybody has at least one vice and it wouldn't hurt to cease & desist with that vice for good. Breaking a habit will ease your mind, detox the body and clease the spirit. You will also save money and attract positive people in to your life. You have the be the person you want to come in to your life!
• Abstinence ! - This point is more of a suggestion. While dating you will be tempted to have many one night stands (lets keep it real!). If you just want to have a friends-with-benefits that's cool but just know either one of yous can catch feelings and it may eventually lead to drama. Knowing your value will give you discernment when making decisions about sex and being abstinence will show you the people who really want you for YOU !  

 "Love Yourself So Much That You Will Be Complete By Yourself So Then You Will Be Given A Mate Who Is Also Complete ! " -Chey-Chey 

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